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"What the Hell Just Happened?" by Tamara L. Miller provides a deeply personal and practical guide for women facing the unexpected loss of a spouse. After fifty-eight years of marriage, Tamara shares her journey through grief, the overwhelming paperwork, and the decisions that followed her husband's passing, offering invaluable insights to help others navigate similar situations.
About The Author
Author, Storyteller, and Grief Support Advocate
When Tamara started to write her first novel nine years ago, she thought it would be only one book about her grandmother, Isla. As she wrote, she realized she might have a trilogy. At the end of her third book, she knew she had enough for a five book series, "Family Forever."
Born and raised in Pomona, California, Tamara writes authentically about twin girls growing up in her hometown, attending the same schools and working in the same places she did. She now calls La Verne, California home, where she crafts her stories from her peaceful writing sanctuary.
Having completed her beloved series, Tamara has embarked on a deeply personal project: "What The Hell Just Happened?" This powerful non-fiction work draws from her experience following the passing of her husband after fifty-eight years of marriage, offering guidance and hope to others navigating similar life-changing moments.
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The fourth book of Tamara Miller's Family Forever series follows one close-knit family through triumphs and heartaches. When Jani's husband faces temptations that challenge everything he once held dear, and Emma's son is hospitalized with terrifying symptoms, the family must find strength to get through life-altering changes.
About The Book
Her marriage was strong and happy. Neither she nor her husband had any health issues. They had two children, four grandchildren, and three great-grandchildren. They felt truly blessed. One granddaughter was about to get married and couldn't wait to dance with her grandfather at the wedding. Another granddaughter was expecting her first child. Life couldn't have seemed more perfect.
Tamara always thought of herself as independent, self-sufficient, and ready for anything. But when tragedy struck, she was blindsided by how unprepared she really was-and by the cascade of challenges that followed. She felt compelled to share her story and help other women be better prepared for the unexpected. In this book, she offers a practical list of what you need to know, based on the many surprises she faced while putting her affairs in order.
You'll also read about her sessions with a Medium, as she reached out in hopes of connecting with her late husband, and the astonishing revelations she encountered along the way. Whether you're a believer or a skeptic, her journey will open your eyes.
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Join Tamara L. Miller on her deeply personal journey through unexpected loss and the challenges that followed. Discover practical insights for navigating the overwhelming paperwork, difficult decisions, and emotional journey after losing a spouse. Learn about her surprising experiences with a Medium and find guidance to help you prepare for life's unexpected turns. This powerful story will open your eyes and offer hope during difficult times.
Testimonial
"After losing my husband of 45 years, I felt completely lost. Tamara's book 'What the Hell Just Happened?' was like having a caring friend guide me through the overwhelming maze of paperwork and decisions. Her honest account of the challenges helped me realize I wasn't alone in feeling unprepared. The practical advice saved me countless hours and stress."
Widow
"This book is a lifeline for anyone facing sudden loss. Tamara's vulnerability in sharing her sessions with a Medium opened my mind to possibilities I never considered. Whether you believe or not, her journey offers hope and comfort during the darkest times. Every woman should read this before they need it."
Retired Teacher
"As someone who has worked with grieving families, I can attest to how unprepared most people are for the practical aspects of loss. Tamara's book fills a crucial gap by addressing not just the emotional journey, but the overwhelming administrative tasks that follow. This should be required reading for every couple."
Healthcare Worker
"I recommend this book to all my clients. Tamara's honest portrayal of her grief journey, combined with practical guidance, makes this an invaluable resource. Her story proves that even when we think we're prepared for anything, life can still surprise us. The section on connecting with a Medium offers a unique perspective on healing."
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